Tired of the fashion industry trying to dress girls like prosti-tots?

If you nodded (or screamed) "Yes!" you need to meet fellow, author-friend, Dannah Gresh. She is taking the fashion industry to task and if I lived close to her, I would show up on her doorstep to give her a big bear hug for doing what she can to protect our girls. Here is a snippet of a press release that describes a movement that Dannah has underway to gather 50,000 signatures from concerned mothers:
To view and sign the Bod Squad petition go to: www.secretkeepergirl .comwhere you can also download a copy of the APA Task Forces study on the sexualization of girls. Moms, if you have ever grumbled about the pint-sized hooker-wear that has overtaken the children and junior's departments at popular retail chains, this is your chance to make a difference. Oh, and do me a favor: Send a link to this post to all your fellow-fed-up mom-friends and let's help Dannah get 50,000 signatures on this petition!
State College, PA • June 1, 2009—It started with four moms in State College, Pennsylvania and it is about to stir up the nation. Led by best-selling author, Dannah Gresh who has sold over three quarter of a million books to teens and tweens, the women are taking the fashion industry to task and calling for fifty-thousand moms to join them. The Bod Squad and calling for 50,000 mothers across the nation to join them. What is the Bod Squad?
“It’s a group of moms who are incensed with the fashion industries attempt to take our little girl’s childhood away,” says Gresh. “The messages our girls get from the fashion industry are destructive. We wanted to push back at that. We never expected the American Psychological Association to agree with our presumptions so powerfully.”
Gresh sites the findings of two years of study by an American Psychological Association (APA) task force on the sexualization of little girls. The APA task force’s report states that music lyrics, Internet content, video games and clothing are now being marketed to younger and younger girls. The smutty content of the marketing is linked to eating disorders, low self-esteem, and depression. Ironically, this early sexualization presented to young girls has “negative consequences on girls’ ability to develop healthy sexuality.” In experiencing sexuality too soon, they actually lose their ability to experience it in a healthy way as adult women.
“And the fashion industry is, indeed, marketing sexual clothing to tweens,” says Gresh. “Just consider the fact that Time magazine reported sales of thong underwear to 7-12 year old girls in excess of $1.6 million in the year 2003. Someone has to stop the madness.”
Gresh has the ear of Women’s Wear Daily, the global “bible” of the fashion industry. Magazine writers have interviewed Gresh about fashion and tweens, citing their own concerns that maybe the fashion industry has gone to far. Gresh, Weibel, Mylin and Anderson—all mothers of girls— were the first to sign the 50,000-Mom Bod Squad Petition on October 1, 2008. Since then, a total of 8,593 have joined at the grassroots level. Now, the petition is going to a new level with national news and media support, with which it can gain the attention of the industry it hopes to shape. The Bod Squad’s request will be for the Council of Fashion Designers of America to read the findings of the APA report, and to tell the fashion industry that mothers want to purchase age-appropriate clothing for their girls and would like the fashion industry to evaluate the clothing they design and the messages they send to our daughters through advertising. Gresh hopes that industry media like Women’s Wear Daily will cover the presenting of the petition, creating industry awareness of both the APA task force findings and consumer desire.
“We don’t want to ban anything,” says Gresh. “We will stay positive. We are consumers who just want to express our concerns. In fact, this fall we’ll be sending a positive message by initiating a national Shop ‘Til You Drop Event to thank retailers who consistently provide age-appropriate and modest clothing for little girls up to age twelve.”
Gresh says that the signers of the petition will actually vote on which retailers they want to “thank.” After the vote, the Shop ‘Til You Drop Event will be publicized for others to join in on the fun.

12 comments:
Hey Vicki ~ Just wanted to let you know that the hyperlink in this post gets an error message. If you just type in the address that you have shown though, it works. :)
Thanks for all of your great work...5 Conversations was the first book on my summer list. I have really enjoyed this blog and the one for 5 Conversations. Great resources that I have passed on to everyone I know!
I am debating partaking in the "Shred" challenge...thankfully no teens here to taunt me! ;P
I am so grateful that someone has taken on this serious issue. I mostly shop at Gymboree for my 9 yo because they have classic clothing that is age-appropriate. I have been so disgusted and frustrated by the clothes out there for young girls and dread the day she no longer fits into Gymboree clothes. I always shop the sales there because they are a little pricey, but the quality and appropriateness of the clothing is worth it. I'm heading over to the link right now. Thanks for the heads up!!
Blessings,
Linda
Awesome - thanks for letting us know about this group. I have an almost four year old, and I was shocked to find only bikinis and super low cut tankinis at the mall for her, along with bras in a size 4T! I don't know a single four year old who needs a bra! And my daughter wears a t-shirt under most of her summer dresses, since the halter-backless or low-cut-spaghetti-straps are about the only thing we can find.
Thanks for posting Vicki! You are fantastic! Keep up the great work.
THAT'S why I don't like BRATZ dolls. Unfortunately, my daughter got a couple of BRATZ things for her 5th birthday. I feel so badly for girls growing up now. I try to do everything I can to allow my kids to be KIDS!
And to comment on a previous comment: So many of the girls (and their MOMS too!) I know wear t'shirts with their dresses too. I had a hard time finding age appropriate tankinis for my 5 y.o. I ended up having to compromise.
Emily
Vicki, I love your blog. I just came across this
http://www.stylelist.com/blog/2009/06/09/audrina-patridge-the-hills-star-gets-intimate-with-a-burger/?icid=main|main|dl5|link5|http%3A%2F%2Fwww.stylelist.com%2Fblog%2F2009%2F06%2F09%2Faudrina-patridge-the-hills-star-gets-intimate-with-a-burger%2F
I know not everyone has Carl's JR restaurant, but we do in the Austin area.. do you know of any official boycotts or petition sites? I sent a letter to the company. I am sure that we all remember Paris Hilton's commercial, apparently their vision (and they are proud of it) is making commercials like this. Its truly disgusting. If anyone wants to, go to their website www.Carlsjr.com and write them. In their press releases, they seem quite proud of the fact that they make these commercials. YUCK!
Thank you for posting this, Vicki! It breaks my heart to see modesty completely devalued and our culture teaching girls to flaunt what they've got, literally from toddlerhood on. I have an eight-year-old daughter and you can't believe how difficult it was to find her a one-piece swimsuit. No thanks, my second grader doesn't need a string bikini! I will definitely be signing that petition!
As a mother of four girls aged 14, 6,5,and 3 I applaud your efforts here. Modesty has always been a struggle to find when shopping for my girls. It sickens me to see the trampy clothes they want me to put these beautiful creations of God into. Also, having five sons ages 13, 11, 11,10, and 8, I'd say hats off to you as well for trying to protect their purity. It's difficult to teach boys to value the true beauty of a girl when she is dressed so poorly. This clothing industry is not just trampling on our girls, they're devaluing our sons as well. Looking for that petition to sign!
God bless you,
Tabatha
Thanks for sharing! I'm definitely checking out the petition and voting for stores.
I have 3 boys and 1 girl. I appreciate the efforts of other moms to clothe their daughters and guard my sons purity!
I was recently saw a question in a forum about "when is a girl old enough to wear a bikini?" Um. Never. I'll stop preaching to the choir now and just add...
For swimsuits check out Land's End! They have cute and modest suits for kids. Also Gymboree is great for little girl clothes. If you shop their sales and Gymbucks you can save a ton of money.
Thanks for the link! I hope to post about this soon. I'm glad that I've learned how to sew - I think I will be using my skills very soon. My older daughter (only 3 yo) loves wearing dresses and skirts, but it is so incredibly hard to find ones with sleeves, or that do more than barely cover their behind! Nothing being preshrunk makes it worse - I lose 1-2 inches that first time through the wash.
Awesome petition! And it looks like a pretty awesome group working hard (like you do, Vicky) to help us keep our kids safe and pure! My 16 year old daughter and I just had a "round" over our boycott of Kohl's because of the advertising campaign they have to tweens with Ms. Brittany. My foot is down and until that campaign is history--so is our spending money at Kohl's. I hope the other readers that determined they would boycott that store, or any other, in the fight for our kids is staying true to your decision! The realization of this problem really hit home when my cousin potty-trained her two-year old by putting her in SATIN PANTIES because the feel of wet satin is so uncomfortable. I worked really well for potty-training, but how in the world did they find satin panties in 18-24 month sizes?!?! Can we say, "it's time to draw the line"?
I couldn't agree more not only tots but our young girls as well. I battle this with a 5year old, 8year old and a 10year old almost weekly. Unfortunately two of the girls are not mine(long story) so when they go see their mom every other weekend and come back I just want to cry when their Dad brings them on Monday mornings, who mind you is a single Dad trying to raise two girly girls. Then there is my daughter that when she goes with her Dad the similar things happen and the grandma is in on it. These people complain that I do the majority of my shopping at Gymboree. It is conservative and fairly traditional on the whole, not to mention if you figure out their sales it is way cool. So all three of these girls, each have, outfits that match from head to toe, for actually very little money considering you can not put a price on being modest with your dress. The other people well lets say the nearest street corner would be appropriate. How sad. My daughter just yesterday said, "I wish we could dress in those clothes like in the show" the show "Little House on the Prairie". I guess what I say might be effective a little
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